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How to Measure Yourself for an Online Wedding Dress

Learn how to take accurate body measurements before ordering a wedding dress online, including bust, waist, hips, height, and dress length.

Ordering a wedding dress online can be simple and stress-free when your measurements are accurate. Bridal sizing is different from everyday clothing, so the best way to choose the right size is to measure your body carefully and compare your numbers with the size chart.

The most important wedding dress measurements are bust, waist, and hips. For some gowns, especially made-to-order dresses, you may also need your height, hollow-to-hem length, heel height, sleeve length, or shoulder measurements.

This guide explains how to measure yourself for an online wedding dress, what mistakes to avoid, and how to choose a size if your measurements fall between two sizes.

Quick Answer: What Measurements Do You Need?

For most online wedding dress orders, you need bust, waist, and hips. For custom sizing or made-to-order gowns, you may also need height, hollow to hem, sleeve length, shoulder width, and heel height.

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your bust while keeping the tape level across your back.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline, usually the narrowest part of your torso.

Hips

Measure around the fullest part of your hips and buttocks with your feet together.

Wedding Dress Measurements Checklist

Before you start, prepare a soft measuring tape, a mirror, fitted clothing or bridal undergarments, and a notebook. If possible, ask another person to help you measure for a more accurate result.

Main measurement

Bust

Measure the fullest part of your bust while keeping the tape straight and relaxed.

Important for bodices, corsets, straps, sleeves, and neckline fit.
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Most fitted point

Waist

Measure your natural waistline, not where your jeans or skirt usually sit.

Important for A-line, mermaid, sheath, ball gown, and corset dresses.
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Lower body fit

Hips

Measure around the widest part of your hips and buttocks with the tape level.

Especially important for mermaid, sheath, trumpet, and fit and flare gowns.
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Dress length

Hollow to Hem

Measure from the hollow at the base of your neck down to the hem length you want.

Important for made-to-order gowns, tall brides, petite brides, and custom lengths.
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Full height

Height

Measure your full height while standing straight, ideally without shoes unless requested otherwise.

Helpful for gown length, proportions, petite sizing, and tall bride adjustments.
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Final styling

Heel Height

Know the heel height you plan to wear so the dress length can be chosen correctly.

Important for floor length gowns, trains, hemming, and wedding day comfort.
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Before You Measure Yourself

Accurate measurements start with preparation. Use a soft measuring tape, not a ruler or metal construction tape. Stand naturally, keep your posture straight, and do not hold your breath or pull the tape too tightly.

Measure over fitted clothing or the undergarments you plan to wear with your wedding dress. Avoid bulky clothing, padded bras you will not wear on the wedding day, and shapewear that changes your measurements unless you plan to wear the same shapewear with the gown.

Best method Ask another person to help you measure, especially for bust, hips, height, and hollow-to-hem length.
Avoid Measuring over loose clothing, pulling the tape tight, rounding down, or using your regular clothing size instead of body measurements.

How to Measure Your Bust

To measure your bust, wrap the measuring tape around the fullest part of your bust. Keep the tape level across your back and parallel to the floor. The tape should be close to the body, but it should not compress the bust.

This measurement is especially important for fitted bodices, corset wedding dresses, strapless gowns, sweetheart necklines, square necklines, and dresses with structured tops.

Best method Stand naturally with relaxed arms and measure around the fullest point of the bust.
Avoid Measuring above the bust, letting the tape dip in the back, or pulling the tape too tightly.
How to measure bust for an online wedding dress

How to Measure Your Waist

Your waist measurement should be taken at your natural waistline. This is usually the narrowest part of your torso, above the belly button and below the rib cage. Do not measure where your jeans usually sit unless that is also your natural waist.

The waist measurement is one of the most important numbers for wedding dress sizing. It affects how the bodice, corset, waistband, skirt, and silhouette sit on the body.

Best method Bend slightly to one side to find the natural crease, then measure around that point while standing straight.
Avoid Holding your stomach in, pulling the tape tight, or measuring too low around the hips.
How to measure waist for an online wedding dress

How to Measure Your Hips

To measure your hips, wrap the tape around the fullest part of your hips and buttocks. This is usually about 7 to 9 inches, or 18 to 23 cm, below your natural waist. Keep your feet together and keep the tape level all the way around.

Hip measurement is especially important for fitted silhouettes, including Mermaid Wedding Dresses, sheath gowns, trumpet dresses, and fit and flare styles. For fuller skirts, such as A-line and ball gown dresses, hip measurement may be less restrictive but should still be checked.

Best method Measure the widest part of the hips and buttocks, not the hip bones.
Avoid Measuring with your feet apart, placing the tape too high, or letting the tape slope upward or downward.
How to measure hips for an online wedding dress

How to Measure Hollow to Hem

Hollow to hem is the measurement from the hollow at the base of your neck down to the point where the dress should end. This measurement is important for floor length gowns, made-to-order dresses, petite sizing, tall bride sizing, and custom lengths.

Stand straight and measure from the small hollow between your collarbones down to the floor or desired hem length. If you plan to wear heels, include your heel height unless the shop gives different instructions.

Best method Ask someone to help and measure while you stand straight in the shoes or heel height you plan to wear.
Avoid Measuring yourself while bending down, guessing the length, or forgetting heel height.

How to Measure Height and Heel Height

Your full height helps determine dress proportions and overall length. Stand barefoot against a wall and measure from the top of your head to the floor. Keep your posture straight and look forward.

Heel height is also important for floor length wedding dresses. If you plan to wear 2 inch heels, 3 inch heels, flats, wedges, or barefoot sandals, the final dress length may need to account for that choice.

Full height Measure from the top of your head to the floor while standing straight.
Heel height Measure the shoes you plan to wear or choose your approximate wedding day heel height before ordering.

Extra Measurements for Sleeves and Custom Wedding Dresses

If your gown has sleeves, a high neckline, a closed back, or custom sizing, you may need extra measurements. These can include shoulder width, armhole, upper arm, sleeve length, wrist, back width, or shoulder-to-waist length.

These measurements are especially helpful for Long Sleeve Wedding Dresses, Detachable Sleeve Wedding Dresses, modest wedding dresses, and made-to-order bridal gowns.

Shoulder width

Measure across the back from one shoulder point to the other.

Sleeve length

Measure from the shoulder point down to the wrist with the arm slightly relaxed.

Upper arm

Measure around the fullest part of the upper arm for fitted sleeve comfort.

Wrist

Measure around the wrist if the gown has fitted long sleeves or button cuffs.

Back width

Useful for closed back, illusion back, modest, and long sleeve bridal gowns.

Shoulder to waist

Helpful for bodice proportions, especially on petite or tall brides.

How to Choose Your Size After Measuring

After taking your measurements, compare them with the wedding dress size chart. If your bust, waist, and hips match different sizes, choose the size that fits your largest measurement. This is usually the safest choice because wedding dresses can often be taken in, but they are much harder to let out.

If you are between sizes

Choose the larger size. A seamstress can usually take the gown in for a closer fit.

If the gown is fitted

For mermaid, sheath, trumpet, and fit and flare gowns, check bust, waist, and hips carefully.

If the skirt is full

For A-line and ball gown dresses, bust and waist are usually the most important measurements.

If the bodice is strapless

Bust and waist fit are especially important because the gown needs enough support to stay secure.

If ordering made to order

Double-check every measurement before submitting, especially length, height, and heel height.

If unsure

Do not guess. Re-measure, ask someone to help, or contact the store before placing the order.

Common Measuring Mistakes to Avoid

Small measuring mistakes can affect the final fit of your wedding dress. Take your time, measure twice, and write down the numbers clearly in both inches or centimeters if needed.

Pulling the tape too tight

The tape should be snug, but it should not press into the body or change your natural shape.

Measuring over loose clothes

Loose clothing can add extra inches and lead to the wrong size.

Forgetting undergarments

Measure in the bra, shapewear, or undergarments you plan to wear if they affect your shape.

Choosing your usual size

Bridal sizing may be different from regular clothing, so always use the size chart.

Ignoring the largest measurement

If one measurement needs a larger size, choose the larger size and alter the rest if needed.

Guessing dress length

Heel height and hollow-to-hem length are important for floor length gowns.

Standard Size vs Made-to-Order Wedding Dress

A standard size wedding dress is chosen from a size chart. It may still need alterations for the best fit. A made-to-order wedding dress may use your measurements to create a closer starting fit, especially for length, height, or body proportions.

If your measurements are close to one size, a standard size may work well. If your bust, waist, hips, or height fall across different sizes, a made-to-order option may be helpful.

Standard size Best when your measurements match one size closely and you can allow time for small alterations.
Made to order Best when you need custom length, special proportions, or a closer fit from the beginning.

Frequently Asked Questions

What measurements do I need to order a wedding dress online?

The most important measurements are bust, waist, and hips. For custom or made-to-order wedding dresses, you may also need height, hollow-to-hem length, heel height, sleeve length, shoulder width, or arm measurements.

Should I measure myself or ask someone to help?

It is best to ask someone to help you measure. Another person can keep the tape level and read the measurement more accurately, especially for bust, hips, height, and hollow-to-hem length.

What should I wear while taking wedding dress measurements?

Wear fitted clothing or the undergarments you plan to wear with the dress. Avoid bulky clothes, loose garments, or shapewear unless you plan to wear the same shapewear on your wedding day.

What if my wedding dress measurements are between sizes?

If your measurements fall between sizes, choose the larger size. Wedding dresses can usually be taken in by a seamstress, but they are much harder to make larger.

Which measurement is most important for a wedding dress?

It depends on the silhouette. Bust, waist, and hips are all important for fitted gowns. For A-line and ball gown dresses, bust and waist are usually the most important measurements.

Do I need heel height before ordering a wedding dress online?

Yes, heel height is important for floor length gowns, made-to-order dresses, and custom length orders. The shoes you plan to wear can affect the final hem length.

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